Monday, August 29, 2011

Why earthquakes are better

It looks like all of my friends made it through Irene safely, and I am thankful.

I've talked to more than a few people who think I'm crazy for living in California, because of the earthquakes.  But I will take earthquakes over hurricanes, tornadoes, floods, volcanoes, below zero freezing weather, any day of the week.  I've lived through the infamous Loma Prieta earthquake in '89, and each since, anything below 6.0 on the Richter scale barely get my attention.  They are quick, and the damage is generally localized.  And, although we live under constant threat of "The Big One", major earthquakes don't happen every year.  But minor ones happen every day, and if you pay attention you can feel them, which is cool.

But tropical storms that last for days?  Tornadoes that wreak havoc on everything thing in their path.  (All that and the occasion earthquake too?) No thanks, I will stay right where I am.  Best of luck to everyone on the east coast recovering, getting back to normal, quickly.

My week was uneventful, extremely uneventful in comparison.  I have no hookups to report, no new developments in my adventures crossing the line.  Just great conversation with new friends.  I've been thinking quite a bit lately about how I might live my life more in the open.  It was never my goal to be sneaking around on my wife, but here I am.  At some point, I hope to be more honest with my wife about what I want, what I need.  I know that it is possible.  And if I play my cards right, my wife will be all for it.

Just last weekend, my wife decided to surprise me with some porn.  She said she had two videos she wanted us to watch.  One was something that she knew I would like.  The other is something she wanted to do to me.  I was intrigued.

So we sit down to watch the first, and it turned out to be a video of a threesome, male/male/female.  We watched while sitting on the couch in our living room.  The guy and the girl were sharing the other guy's cock, licking it up and down.  Then the scene switched to the guy fucking the other guy, while the girl sucked the other guys dick.  I was hard in seconds.  My wife slid her hand into my shorts and played with me while we watched.  After a few minutes, I asked if we could move to the bedroom.

In the bedroom, she showed me the second video.  The first thing a saw was a guy sitting on a couch with a gigantic black dildo in his hand.  My first thought?  "Ouch!".  LOL.  Then a woman entered the scene wearing a black leather lingerie piece that included a "smaller" black strap on.  She stood in front of the guy, who was still fully clothed, and made him suck on it.  He managed to strip off his shirt, and undo his jeans, while she fucked his mouth.  When his cock was free, they reversed places.

Oh yeah, while we were watching this video, my wife was sucking me off.  I know that most of my readers probably won't enjoy me talking about straight sex.  But I know there are a few of you out there who will love it! *wink*.  I love when sex with my wife includes some sort of bi/gay aspect.  Not only because it's hot, it get's me hot, but because it shows promise for what might come in the future.

She switched back to the first video while she was still sucking on my cock.  The one of the guy getting fucked and blown at the same time.  I asked which of the two guys she thought I was in that scenario.  She was coy at first, but then said I was the guy getting fucked.  It wasn't long after that, that I pulled her off and fucked her.  And well, with my new found ass experience, I couldn't help but play with that a bit too.  Just a bit, nothing over the top, just enough to crack open possibilities that I hadn't really thought of before.  We never did talk about her wanting to fuck me with a strap on.

So I guess I lied when I had nothing new to report.


  1. Did you ever', that was a hot hookup Jay. The possibilities are endless with a wife like yours whos willing to try new things with you. Maybe a strap on would be fun. The more games you two play, the more exciting your sex lives will be. Sounds like you have a fantastic partner. hal

  2. Jay, I think Hal said it all. It sounds like you've got a great wife that is willing to experiment with you, and that is very exciting! That she was imagining you as the guy getting fucked says quite a lot. I think she is open to a lot of possibilities here. It sounds like she might be open to a 3way - MMF. Wow. Maybe you should watch that video again, and then ask her after if she would go there with you? Wow, that is hot.


  3. Hot. (BTW, never get shy about telling us your escapades with your wife in details.)

  4. you're definitely in unchartered waters here. never really thought of my sexual exploits as "conventional" but i guess they are. i've always compartmentalized the two sexes: i turn to women for the feminine and men for the masculine. that's not to say i don't enjoy a broad spectrum of activity w/ each respective sex. but i've never had the desire to be poked by a woman w/ a strap-on. i always thought that type of activity was reserved for individuals unwilling or unable to explore the broad panoply of sexual expression. in other words, someone who wants to experience being fucked but unable to try being fucked by a man. in retrospect, maybe my thinking has been too limited. why not try role reversal? do it...just proceed w/ caution and appreciate just how unique your wife is.

    i keep returning to the same point: most people want to believe they and they alone should be enuf for their lover/husband. it's the rare individual who not only doesn't mind their mate going outside their relationship, but seems to desire it.

  5. Awesome man, you are very fortunate that your wife is interested in exploring sexuality with you. And yeah
    man, for the bi guys who read you, we enjoy stories with women too.