tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post5437200862606946758..comments2023-06-01T01:03:38.293-07:00Comments on Bi Crossing The Line: My Sexual EducationJayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00574403536679970986noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-69798076987965366002011-12-22T04:54:05.958-08:002011-12-22T04:54:05.958-08:00May the spirit of Christmas bring you peace,
The g...May the spirit of Christmas bring you peace,<br />The gladness of Christmas give you hope,<br />The warmth of Christmas grant you love.<br /> <br />May you never forget <br />What is worth remembering <br />Or remember <br />What is best forgotten.<br /> <br />Happy holidays everyone!<br />RugbysexAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-29264340754760809032011-12-05T20:12:57.861-08:002011-12-05T20:12:57.861-08:00A divided bisexual man is someone who compartmenta...A divided bisexual man is someone who compartmentalizes as a way to cope with the difficult questions that arise when he's in a loving relationship with a woman but would prefer to have sex with men.<br /><br />A unified bisexual man is someone who doesn't compartmentalize. Women and men, love and sex, it's all good and there's little stress. <br /><br />When you say that you "never struggled with my own identity" and you "never worried about being accepted" those are exactly the kinds of things a unified bisexual man would say.<br /><br />BTW, the ultimate test for a married unified bisexual man is to come out to his wife. It's a test for the wife as well and no matter how secure some men are in their bisexuality, some women will never accept it. However, I have seen an amazing number of women who will gladly accept their husband as bisexual. All he has to do is make them feel secure in the marriage. Fidelity is a big issue but even more importantly is the question of honest desire and sexual fulfillment. Many women will fully accept a bisexual man just as long as has consistently made her feel authentically desired. It's essential to women that they be wanted.TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-63643391956941026992011-12-05T07:56:14.996-08:002011-12-05T07:56:14.996-08:00TwoLives is incomplete in this: "He character...TwoLives is incomplete in this: <i>"He characterizes two types of bisexuals. Those who can love and have sex with men and women freely. And those who love women but crave sex with men."</i><br /><br />Properly phrased, there are those who can have emotional/sexual relationships with either men or women, and those who can have emotional/sexual relationships with only one gender, and still crave sex with the other gender.<br /><br />What status one may find oneself in can be changeable over time.Phillip Allenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08185584085414171479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-69658948880661718542011-12-05T05:38:37.835-08:002011-12-05T05:38:37.835-08:00As Westernrock stated: very interessting reflectio...As Westernrock stated: very interessting reflections...Sekimhttp://sekimlangweiligesleben.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-76883198910772709792011-12-03T11:51:57.517-08:002011-12-03T11:51:57.517-08:00i never had a relationship w/ a man. all man sex w...i never had a relationship w/ a man. all man sex was purely sport. great sport. all my relationships (including two live-in gfs) were w/ women. the sex was great. there was friendship but no romantic yearnings for a committed relationship on my part.<br /><br />like you, i never experienced any trauma or angst about my feelings for men. you just didn't talk about them and you needed to be discreet. it wasn't until very recently that for the first time in my life i fell head over heels in love with someone and to my utter amazement, those feelings were returned in equal measure. the person was a man. <br /><br />deo gratias, i've found my life partner. i still take a good look at a nice set of tits, shapely legs, or a guy's bubble butt. i might even flirt but only in fun. i don't know whether that makes me gay or bi or what. i hate labels. my partner's a man and i'm proud of him so i've told all my friends. let them affix labels if they need to. did i mention that i've never been happier?<br /><br />continue the journey my friend. you've found love. maybe you're capable of loving more than one person. how you manage that is up to you. for me love involves a monogamous committment. for a heretofore self-described "slut" fidelity has been surprisingly easy. i wouldn't, couldn't endanger what i have for a little sport on the side. why would i want chopped liver, when i've got caviar?<br /><br />pax tibi frater.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351780258676413080.post-33381197455361867132011-12-03T10:06:06.487-08:002011-12-03T10:06:06.487-08:00Very interesting reflections.Very interesting reflections.Westernstockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11251271999023783222noreply@blogger.com